Making Mindful (and delicious!) Choices

Making Mindful (and delicious!) Choices

Out to dinner last week I had the opportunity to put mindful eating into practice in the restaurant setting.

I enjoyed each crunchy bite of salad combined with a tasty piece of seasoned shrimp, savoring the taste and textures as I munched and chatted. By the bottom of the bowl my taste buds had grown bored, but I felt comfortably full.

Then it came time for the waiter to ask if we wanted dessert… It was a free meal and I still had a few dollars on my card and said “those salted caramel pretzel bites sound pretty good. Sure, what the heck!” When dessert arrived I was aware of how full I felt and asked the waiter to bring a box because no way was I going to finish those sugar-coated pretzel bites.  Funny story, after my dinner partner and I parted ways I proceeded to devour not only the rest of the pretzel bites but also the brownie that he left behind. Oh, did I mention that there was ice cream too?

Okay, now that I’ve got you all thinking about these delicious foods on a Monday morning I will explain the lesson behind this experience, hoping it will help you avoid a similar situation.

At dinner I decided to “be good” and get a salad with shrimp when I actually wanted sweet potato fries and a beer. I set myself up for failure or more precisely for dissatisfaction, which led me to what I call the dieters reward trap. This is the belief: “that because you’ve been so good you should have a tiny treat because really, what’s the harm?” Well if you’re like me and find when you start eating sweets that your brain won’t let you stop until it’s ALL gone then the harm is a few hundred empty calories and maybe an upset tummy.

Food for thought: 

Have you ever experienced something like this?

I’m not saying you should never eat a brownie and ice cream because I believe there’s room for treats in anyone’s diet.

My hope is you can be spared from making a similar mistake and just get what you want while still aiming for balance. (i.e. a baked potato instead of fries if that will fulfill your craving).

What is Motivating You?

What is Motivating You?

You can make any changes to your body that you want. It is a matter of knowing how to change your ways and finding the motivation to stick with it.

A few years ago I received a lovely ring. Prior to receiving this gift I was an avid nail biter, but having that new shiny accessory to show off encouraged me to work on growing my nails to make them pretty. I bought monthly manicures to reward my progress. Also, I had no idea how to take care of my nails so the manicures gave me a chance to learn from the pros.

To this day, I can proudly say I am no longer a nail-biter (most of the time). When I look at my nails I am reminded of how it was not easy at first, but over time I readjusted… and chewed a lot of gum!
 
 
Some people say it only takes 21 days to make a new habit. I’m not sure I believe that’s true for everyone; however, when you have the right motivation you will change and it will stick.  According to research in Appetite, changing a habit can be approached 3 ways:
  1. Identify the triggers for an unwanted habitual behavior
  2. Make a conscience effort to change the response
  3. Remove the temptations or barriers to the undesired habit 

Food for thought:

What is motivating you? Are you looking for more energy? Do you want to feel better in your clothes? 
 
It’s not wrong to make healthy changes for aesthetic reasons; however, that can be frustrating as it takes time. From my experience in clinic, medical reasons are usually the strongest initiators for change. Whatever starts your journey to a self-improvement I encourage you to reward your success along the way.

Make it easy!

Make it easy!

Stop what you’re doing. Think of something that’s really easy to do. Close your eyes and take a moment to think about it.

For me the first thing that came to my mind was brushing my teeth. I do it at least 2 times a day and it feels good!

Okay, what did you think of?

Now that we know what’s easy for us let’s take it a step further…

Why is it easy? Maybe it’s something you’ve been doing every day for the past several years. Driving a car is easy, right?

 
Next step, think of something difficult regarding your health and wellness. Maybe it’s finding a good doctor, working out at the gym consistently or packing lunch to take to work. What makes it a challenge? Maybe it’s new or something you have not done for a while. Chances are whatever change you are seeking is not a habit (yet!).

Food for thought:

Making healthy changes is not easy if you try to change everything all at once. You can make it easy by setting some smaller bite-sized goals to get to your bigger goals.

How can you make it easy this week?

What Fills Your Cup?

What Fills Your Cup?

I love this phrase – fills your cup – and I thank Kristen Norton for bringing it back into my vocabulary.
For those of you wondering what in the world that means, I would summarize that it’s same concept of what recharges your batteries? What gives you light or energy?

This week I had the pleasure of hanging out with some of my favorite mentors. These inspiring individuals have played a big role in my NC Wellness Adventures journey and hearing them speak at a conference I recently attended was nourishment for my soul.

One in particular is Denise Ryan of Firestar Speaking. Denise is a fun, entertaining and experienced public speaker who tells hilarious stories to relate to the audience and share practical advice for work and life. Listening to her AND having the pleasure of speaking with her totally and completely refilled my small business cup!

Food for thought:

Again I’ll ask, what fills your cup?

Maybe hanging out with friends and family, reading a riveting novel or spending time in a quiet place journaling.
If you’re not sure in this moment, that’s okay. A good way to find out is notice what gives you energy, and sometimes more importantly, what leaves you exhausted?
When we know what recharges our batteries it’s easier to avoid less helpful “escapes” such as alcohol or sugar.
No more grocery shopping guessing games

No more grocery shopping guessing games

(This week’s post is brought to you by Kristen Norton! Kristen is a fellow dietitian, adventurist, creative colleague and friend. She shares with us a useful tool to untangle grocery shopping confusion via the EWG’s Food Score app/website.)

 

We know whole foods such as fresh fruits, vegetables, and meat, wild-caught fish or poultry are best for our health. The reality, is that life is really busy and there is not always time to prepare every meal from scratch. Occasionally, you find yourself strolling down the center aisles filled with packaged, convenience foods and that’s where things get murky. Sound familiar?

Yep, we’ve all been there – confused and ready to give up. Good news? Yes, The Environmental Working Group (EWG) has got our back. The same group who brings us the “Dirty Dozen” list every year now offers us a tool that can lift the fog.
EWG’s Food Scores: Rate Your Plate

A handy database to guide healthy options at the supermarket. You can find the healthiest foods based on three important criteria: nutritional value; amount of concerning ingredients like additives and preservatives; and the degree and type of processing.

With a few taps on your smartphone, a quick scan of a bar code or a couple of clicks on your home computer, Food Scores can reveal if those packaged foods are truly healthy options or junk foods in disguise. No more guessing.

Food for thought: 

It’s a grocery shopping tool in your pocket!

As easy as: (1) going to the App store, (2) searching EWG Food Score and (3) install it for free.

OR

Go to http://www.ewg.org/foodscores. Search for any food. The lower the score, the better!